SackOfSorry ( member #83195) posted at 8:00 PM on Monday, March 23rd, 2026
While I hope that is the case he could really be missing the convenience of living in a place where everything is easy and done for him (laundry, meals etc).
It really is amazing what is on their minds while their marriages are literally falling apart at the seams. When I kicked my WH out, one of the first things he asked me was if he could come by and get meals out of the freezer every weekend and do his laundry while I was at work. I'm hysterically sobbing, and this is what he wants to know.
Me - BW DDay - May 4, 2013
And nothing's quite as sure as change. (The Mamas and the Papas)
Smokey15 (original poster new member #87112) posted at 9:38 PM on Wednesday, April 8th, 2026
Been away for a while trying to process my thoughts and start my healing journey. I met with him today and we ended up talking for hours about everything. I got angry, sad, confused, we also had happy chats about our child. I kept making it very clear I was not there to make any decisions and also to lay out the possibility of separation which it appears he hadn't considered. He just kept saying he wanted to move back in to support me in my pregnancy and also try to work on things. He is looking for a new job and has enquired about counselling but apparently not heard back from it yet. He said he still fancies AP but doesn't want her anymore and only wants me. Said he hates himself and knows it will take a lot of work and time to rebuild. Also said he wants to be there for the birth. As he left he mentioned again about moving back in. I don't think I feel ready for that but I am feeling pressured.
