leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:37 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Eric1964 ( member #84524) posted at 9:44 PM on Sunday, March 30th, 2025
There's excellent wisdom here but I found this site and this thread far, far too late, which basically meant I'd made choices by default (to stay, to forgive.) I'm about to start therapy; my fear is that I won't have the strength to act on what it teaches me.
WW always had a not-entirely negative attitude to affairs.Affair with ex-coworker, DDay1 2009-12-31; affair resumed almost immediately, DDay2 2010-06-11. Sex life poor. Possibly other affair(s) before 2009.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 5:58 PM on Sunday, April 13th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Ladyesotsm ( new member #86142) posted at 3:33 PM on Thursday, May 8th, 2025
Extremely insightful. I am currently at a loss for words, thoughts, or emotions
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:59 AM on Thursday, May 29th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 11:12 PM on Friday, July 18th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Lotus6065 ( new member #86399) posted at 2:32 AM on Saturday, August 9th, 2025
This was helpful for me to read. Thank you for taking the time to write this. We can all be happy again
Together 32yrs, Married 27yrs, WS had 2yr+ affair & flings with other women 8yrs back, D-Day 6/6/25, Filed for Divorce 9/25, WS currently with AP
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 6:34 PM on Friday, September 12th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Sunrise29 ( new member #86519) posted at 7:19 AM on Wednesday, September 17th, 2025
I’m so grateful for this post, thank you. 3 weeks in and I have reached the "I can’t do this " stage, but after reading this, I can. Reconciled 20 years ago and not doing it again. Probably affairs I don’t even know about in that time. This post has given me clarity & strength. Thank you x
silverfx42 ( new member #86683) posted at 12:15 PM on Sunday, October 26th, 2025
Just saw this post as I'm pretty new here. I would like some discussion about some suspicions that I have had
early and throughout our marriage. Not sure if this will be read or responded to, but I would like some feedback
about things. Not wanting to change or challenge, just have some desire to know. Lots of red flags I think.
Hope to get some response.
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 9:23 PM on Sunday, November 2nd, 2025
We usually don't follow or read/respond to this thread. The best thing to do is to create your own thread with details so that we'll be better able to discuss.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Suekl ( new member #86893) posted at 5:56 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2026
Hi I’m new here . How do I make a post on the forums? It appears there’s an option to respond but I don’t see an option to create a post myself . Thank you
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 8:40 AM on Thursday, March 12th, 2026
Suekl ( new member) posted at 5:56 PM on Monday, January 5th, 2026
Hi I’m new here . How do I make a post on the forums? It appears there’s an option to respond but I don’t see an option to create a post myself . Thank you
Can't upload a picture with no url so I will parse it this way for you:
You have above the Posts tab a navigation index looking like below
Just Found Out
Page 1 of 25 1 2 3 4 5 ____ Return to Forums _________________________________________________Post New Topic
Simply select "Post New Topic" and you will be able to tell your story in a way that is visible to everyone, so you can get some support.
[This message edited by BackfromtheStorm at 8:40 AM, Thursday, March 12th]
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
