Topic is Sleeping.
Lotus6065 (original poster new member #86399) posted at 5:30 PM on Saturday, January 24th, 2026
Hello all, I am embarrassed to ask this question but I cannot figure out how to send a message to someone that posted something that I want to comment on? Can anyone give me some guidance on how to send a private message to a person that posted because we share many of the same qualities in our problems thank you in advance.
Together 32yrs, Married 27yrs, WS had 2yr+ affair & flings with other women 8yrs back, D-Day 6/6/25, Filed for Divorce 9/25, WS currently with AP
asc1226 ( member #75363) posted at 5:41 PM on Saturday, January 24th, 2026
Lotus,
You need to have 50 posts before you can send a pm, though you can still receive one.
I make edits, words is hard
Lotus6065 (original poster new member #86399) posted at 5:43 PM on Saturday, January 24th, 2026
Ah, thanks I’m glad I asked!
Together 32yrs, Married 27yrs, WS had 2yr+ affair & flings with other women 8yrs back, D-Day 6/6/25, Filed for Divorce 9/25, WS currently with AP
BackfromtheStorm ( member #86900) posted at 8:06 PM on Saturday, January 24th, 2026
You could try to ask them here, if they have more than 50 post they can message you and you can discuss from that inbox
You are welcome to send me a PM if you think I can help you. I respond when I can.
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 3:25 PM on Sunday, January 25th, 2026
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Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
Topic is Sleeping.
